Seduction is the most exciting thing in a relationship. It isn't bad or wrong, it's absolutely necessarily. The power of seduction is a gift. But not all of us have it, so we have to learn how to seduce the woman we want. Seduction can mean a couple of different things: it is a method that lets men have more success with women on a regular, repeatable basis and also it is a process by which one person leads another to the beginning of a sexual relationship.
Choose very well your target. Maybe it is there a beautiful sexy lady after you look anytime you see her on the street, but you never think that you will have a chance with her. Why don't you try to seduce her, maybe you'll win. But before you start, you must know that there are a few steps in seducing a woman:
- you have to be ready so get over your past rejection, overcome your shyness and clear your mind and think about what about you are going to talk with her
- interrupt her and get her attention next time when you see her; initiate with women, it takes guts to ask her out, ask her phone number
-create a conversational connection with her and show that you are able to understand her, make her sees you as romantic partner; lots of women love this
Considering that you get your first date with her, here are some tips for seduction that might help you:
-first of all, train your mind and focus on your goal, and remember that your goal is to get that woman; so you must know which are the mistakes from the past, and not make them again
-choose the perfect place for effective seduction, a place with a comfortable atmosphere, avoid places too bright lights or too dull ambiance
-eliminate every possible obstacle; convince yourself from the beginning that you can seduce her, even if you never did this before
-be yourself, show that you are well groomed and watch out about the basis hygiene; no women like a man with dirty clothes, or with a smell breath
-relax and smile as often as you can but be controlled; you just have to please her
-eyes contact it is very important when seducing; eyes are capable of showing your deepest emotions but watch out to not stare at her
-let her know that you are interested; women like to make them feel good about themselves
-the first impression usually last: show her that you are not interested only for sex
-have the right attitude – fearless and not arrogant, convince her that you are confident in your own skin
-do not shutter or look nervous, a confident person has much more chance of seducing
-have self confidence, sense of humor and self control
-show her that you are a gentleman; not many men from our days are; treat her like a princess, respect her for what she is and compliment her
-do not touch her in an offensive way; touch her slightly on her hands and even shoulders and you will see what's next
-tease her; a woman will be attracted to men who tease and challenge her; teasing raises frustration which starts her attraction; if you are wanted by other women, you will command her respect and attraction
-be creative; you may buy her a nice gift and be genuine when you give it to her
-learn to dance; nothing turns on a person more than dancing, as you can get intimidate with each other without feeling awkward
-prepare your conversation; indulge a conversation that interest her too; women like intellectual conversations; talking will break the ice and seduction becomes more easier since the woman is comfortable; best way to start a conversation is with a genuine compliment
Women are attracted to specific, confident traits in men and your behavior demonstrates them. So start watching what women actually respond to, not what they say they want.
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