Internet online dating takes patience and practice. Just because you are seated at your own
computer doesn't mean that people will come to chat with you for no reason.
Even in this medium of Internet dating, you must take the initiative and
actively seek to contact those you like.
But even if you contact some people or they contact you,
there are some incredibly stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating and singles
sites ad than complain that all women are ignoring them.
Women are searching men which know to make them feel good
and have great time with. They are looking for someone intelligent, someone who
listens, a man with a good sense of humor, a well-rounded person with a
positive attitude.
If you want to get some responses and even get to know
closely women by online dating you have to stop doing the mistakes that are
chasing all the women away. So:
1. Women browse profiles to find their match just like you
do. Post a good recent picture of yourself, a nice picture that shows your
sense of humor or style. Do not send women pictures of our
"privates". They will ask if they want to see that.
2. Make sure your profile contains proper spelling and
grammar. Women like an intelligent person. Do not ruin your chances with simple
mistakes in your profile. Take some time to get it right guys and you will get
a response.
3. Women usually like men with some class, so don't choose a
nickname that has a sexual innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating site).
You don’t want to give the impression that you’re just searching for a one
night stand.
4. Don't use negative words in your profile. Women are much
more likely to be attracted to a positive person.
5. Send individual emails and put some thought into
contacting women on these dating sites. Women get 100 emails a day from all
sorts of guys. If you copy and paste 10
exactly same emails and send them off you just go over-looked.
6. Show women that you are a caring person. Get to know the
woman. Ask questions to learn about whom she is, what she does, etc. Don't talk
only about yourself.
7. Do not pretend that you are willing to fly half way round
the world to meet someone you have been chatting to when using online dating
sites if you are not really serious. It's not fair on anyone including you.
It's easy to get carried away with a lovely person seven thousand miles away,
but are you really going to get out of that chair and go and meet them? If you
are, you have our utmost support and respect. If you are really only looking
for someone in your state or close to home then stick with that and make it
clear.
8. If you are married don't lie, tell from the very
beginning. Women can feel this and it gets you nowhere. If you are sincere
maybe you find someone who is willing to spend some good time with you.
9. If a woman tells you that she is not interested in you do
not keep sending her messages. You are losing your time and she can complain
that you are harassing her.
Be patient, it takes time to find someone special when using
online dating sites and dating services, like anywhere else for that matter.
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